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De Lima's Dilemma

Posted on Friday, 18 November 2016



DE LIMA'S DILEMMA
By:Melvyn AvanceƱa Aradanas

On character, frailty and flirt
The difference between Frail and flirt has a very thin line indeed except for its having one commonality, and that is, both have the same number of letters, that may have confused the weak mind of Delima.
By admitting to falling for Dayan because of the "frailty of a woman", which she could have avoided if her character was strong enough knowing of the intricacies and possible repercussions of such act.
Unfortunately for her, she did gave in. And to think that it is just for satisfying her sex urge, which by the way, she, on her own can satisfy the same.

Kumbaga, kung nangangati, mayroon naman siyang kakayahang kamutin ito nang di na kailangan pang ipakamot sa iba.

This brings me to the next question.
If one wants to be wealthy or in her case, needs a huge amount of money because of an impending campaign or is required by some people to shell out money for some dubious plan, and your own income is not enough to raise such financial requirements, what would you do?
Start a new business? Look for a second job? Invest in stocks with high returns?

The three choices could be possible, but only if you have the time on your side. It could and are really the only choices left for many of us and these choices are usually asked by presenters in multi-level marketing or networking business presentations.

But in Delima's case, her dilemma is that time is not on her side. And the amount involved is so gargantuan that building a new business or stocks investment can never be an option.
So what is left for her? With her weak character, as evidenced by her admission, she really could possibly give in to the "frailties of a human". That if an opportunity to accumulate wealth, especially from questionable sources, presents itself, she would gladly grab it.

The same also goes with those who wield certain level of influence or power in government.
With Delima's express admission of her relationship with Dayan, there is therefore a likely possibility that she accepted protection money from drug lords. And after realizing the ease with which to accumulate such amounts of money, the impunity can never be clipped.

Let's wait then for her next admission, which I hoped won't turn into a series...a series of admissions.

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On Being Frail and Just Being Flirt

Posted on Thursday, 17 November 2016

ON BEING FRAIL AND JUST BEING FLIRT
By Apolinario Villalobos

If one is frail, he/she could be weak either in health or emotion. Being frail in health is self-explanatory, but being frail emotionally is more complicated as it concerns the heart that easily “falls” in the name of love, as well as, one’s psychological stability. To fall in love easily because of frailty should not be mistaken for just being flirt. There is seriousness in falling in love due to frailty and the person can fight for it to death. But if one changes partner as often as he/she could, then he/she is plain and simply being flirt.

Flirting is an indication that one is sexually voracious. For a woman she could be a nymphomaniac and for a man he could be a sex maniac. Pride is also involved in flirting as for a woman with advancing age, she may want to prove that she is still sexually capable which in Tagalog means, “may asim pa”. For a man who is in the same situation and wants to brag that he can still endure, means, “tigasin pa”. For being flirt, a woman can be viewed as, “biga-on”, “bigatot”, “bigatlon”, “makatol” (Bisaya: Ilonggo and Cebuano); “garampingat” (Ilocano); “badiangan” (T’boli); “batinggilan” (Karay-a); “kantutin”,  “malandi”, “makati” (Tagalog). For a man, the generic term among Bisayans is his being, “pala-utog”, “butakal”, and in Tagalog, “kantutin” or “pala-kantot”.

It is not right for de Lima to say that she fell for Dayan, her former driver because she had been frail as a woman which has a rough equivalent in Tagalog as, “sapagka’t ako ay tao lamang”. If it was love that she felt, hence, fell for him, she should have been open about their affair, but all indications point to her lack of seriousness about it. In Tagalog her act means, “tikim lang”. It should be recalled that one of the Bilibid witnesses mentioned that the “role” of  Dayan was later taken over by another guy, or that Dayan was simply “replaced” by another guy.

As an educated and well-informed woman, she should have known that as a government official before getting elected as senator, albeit questionably, having an affair with a man who is informally separated from his wife, and despite her being legally separated from her husband, is not allowed, or simply, distasteful, repugnant, offensive, revolting, objectionable, obnoxious, repulsive, etc. I CAN’T JUST FATHOM, THEN, HOW HER COTERIE OF NUNS, PRIESTS, BISHOPS, STUDENTS, “PROPER” WOMEN WHO BELONG TO CONSCIENCE GROUPS KUNO, FAILED TO SEE SUCH GLARING SITUATION.


De Lima’s incessant denial before of her affair with Dayan, but finally admitting it, proved that she is CAPABLE OF TELLING LIES with which she insulted the intelligence of the Filipinos for a long time. And, this puts her credibility in jeopardy as regards her equally unremitting denial of her involvement in the anomalous drug transactions inside the Bilibid. Who will believe her “innocence” now?...perhaps, again, the women’s groups, especially, Gabriela, the priests, nuns, students, and bishops…at least, there are some, as the rest of the nation does not. With Kerwin Espinosa home and set to spill the beans, there is no denying that the sword of Damocles is threateningly swaying over her head. She should be singing, “My Way” now…as she is doomed to face the final curtain!...what if she is sentenced after the death penalty is approved?

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Imelda (para kay Baby G. Moll)

Posted on Wednesday, 16 November 2016

Imelda
(para kay Baby G. Moll)

By Apolinario Villalobos

Ang mamuhay sa mundo’y maraming kaakibat –
Pakikipagkapwa na sa pagmamahal ay di salat
Pagmamahal sa kalikasan na turing nati’y ina
At pagpapatatag ng tahanan, lalo na ng pamilya.

Ang mga nabanggit, lahat ay nagawa ni Imelda
Ibinuntong hiningang reklamo, di marinig sa kanya
Kung mayroon mang himutok, kanyang sinasarili
Mga tugon sa problema, di niya ipinagbabakasakali.

Tulad ng iba, si Imelda ay mayroon ding ambisyon
Tugatog ng tagumpay, maabot pagdating ng panahon
Tulad din ng iba, kapalaran niya’y naudlot at nahatak
Sa biglang pag-asawa, si Imelda ay doon napasadlak.

Itinuring na guhit ng palad, lahat ng mga nangyari
Wala siyang sinisi, iba mang tao o kanyang sarili
Ang paghakba’y itinuloy subali’t iba nang nilalandas -

Maaliwalas ang mukhang nakatingin sa bagong bukas!



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Owen Reyno. Andrada...taga-PAL na walang pahinga

Owen Reyno S. Andrada
… taga-PAL na walang pahinga
Ni Apolinario Villalobos

Natapos ni Owen ang kursong Marin Engineering sa Philippine Merchant Marine Colleges (Manila) sa tulong ng trabaho bilang isa sa mga janitor ng Stella Janitorial Services at ang assignment niya ay ang Manila Domestic Station. Hindi lang paglilinis ng mga opisina at kung minsan ay pagmi-messenger bilang pakisama ang kayang ginawa, dahil tinanggap din niya ang dagdag-trabaho na “timekeeper” ng janitorial agency para sa shift niya. Tiyempong nakatapos na siya sa kanyang pag-aaral nang mapasama siya sa mga na-absorb ng Philippine Airlines noong 1989, panahon ni Joe Medrano bilang Director ng Manila Station-Domestic. Ang pag-absorb ay ibinatay sa magandang performance at ugaling mapagkatiwalaan. Dahil sa nangyari, dinoble pa ni Owen ang sipag, kaya binigyan din siya ng pagkakataong ma-expose sa ibang uri ng trabaho sa airport tulad ng clerical at pagmaneho ng mga ground equipment na ginagamit ng PAL sa operation. Ang hindi alam sa opisina ay nakakapag-sideline pa si Owen bilang “on call” driver upang magmaneho ng van kung may ihahatid o susunduin sa airport, kung day-off niya.

Noong 1991 ay ipinadala si Owen sa Cauayan Station, sa Isabela, at kahit hindi nabago ang kanyang position title na Station Loader ay hindi siya nagreklamo. Lalong nadagdagan pa ang kanyang trabaho nang mapasabak siya sa provincial station operation dahil pati Counter Handling ay ginawa rin niya. Noong 1994 ay inilipat siya sa Tuguegarao Station at nang sumunod na taon ay ibinalik siya sa Manila Domestic Station, at nang sumunod pang taon ay itinalaga siya sa Area Office bilang office clerk hanggang 1996, subalit hindi siya nagtagal dahil ipinadala naman siya sa Laog. Sa Laoag ay na-promote si Owen noong 1998 bilang Ticket/Freight Clerk.

Dahil sa sobrang sipag at madiskarte, liban pa sa palakaibigan, naging malapit siya sa may-ari ng dormitoryong tinirhan niya habang siya ay nasa Laoag. Kinausap siya ng may-ari ng dormitoryo at pinakiusapang siya ang “mag-manage” nito at ang kapalit ay 50% discount sa inuupahan niyang kuwarto. Hindi naman ito nakaapekta sa kanyang trabaho sa PAL dahil para lang siyang “tatay” na nagbabantay ng mga “anak” kung nasa bahay na siya. Ikinuwento niyang istrikto siya sa naging patakaran niya sa mga boarder dahil pinairal niya ang “segregation” ng mga basura, na siyang pinapatupad ng gobyerno ngayon…pero lumalabas naisip na niya maraming taon na ang nakalipas.

Noong nasa Laoag siya, taong 1998 ay nagkaroon ng strike ang mga Piloto kaya tumigil sa operation ang Philippine Airlines na nakaapekto sa mga ground personnel.

Noong taong 2000 ay nagbukas uli ang Philippine Airlines at na-rehire si Owen. Itinalaga siya bilang Office Clerk sa opisina ng Country Manager-Philippines na nasa ilalim ni Jing Javier. Balik-Laoag na naman siya noong 2006 at dahil sa training niya sa pagmaneho ng mga sasakyang pang-airport operation ay nabigyan siya ng pagkakataong magmaneho ng tug/tow car at iba pa, na nadagdag sa dati na niyang ginagawa tulad ng pag-check in ng mga pasahero at pagtanggap ng mga cargo, pati pa-issue ng tiket.

Taong 2015, dahil sa ipinakita niyang gilas ay inilipat siya sa Terminal 2 PAL Ticket Office bilang Sales and Services Agent. Hanggang ngayon ay nasa nasabing puwesto at opisina pa rin siya, subalit dahil sa kasipagan ay nagagawa pa rin niyang isingit ang pagbisita sa kanyang palayan sa Cauayan na naipundar niya noong una siyang ma-assign sa Laoag. Dahil sa ginagawa niyang pag-asikaso sa kanyang palayan ay nasunog ang kanyang balat pero hindi naman niya alintana, lalo pa at nagmukha lang siyang tunay na taga-norte.

Mahigit 40 na taong gulang pa lang si Owen subalit nakapagpundar na ng mga palayan, at lahat ng pagsisikap niya ay kanyang napagtagumpayan dahil sa suporta ng asawang si Nancy. Dalawa ang anak nila, sina Sheila Marie, 24 taong gulang at IT graduate; at si Hanna Camille na nag-aaral pa sa kolehiyo.

Magandang leksiyon si Owen sa mga nagtatrabaho ngayon na hirap magtagumpay dahil sa halip na mag-ipon at magsikap sa trabaho ay bisyo ang inaatupag tulad ng chain smoking at pag-inom ng alak tuwing walang pasok, at idagdag pa diyan ang mga luho sa katawan dahil inaasahan ang 15/30 na suweldo. Kung maraming Owen sa Pilipinas, na animo ay ay “curacha” kung kumilos dahil walang sinasayang na oras, wala sanang problema o maski papaano ay nababawasan ang problema sa unemployment.





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Huwag Sayangin at sa Halip ay Gamitin sa Kabutihan ang mga Biyaya

Posted on Sunday, 13 November 2016

Huwag Sayangin at sa Halip
ay Gamitin sa Kabutihan ang Mga Biyaya
Ni Apolinario Villalobos

Lahat ng bagay sa mundo, lalo na ang may buhay tulad ng tao ay may mga kabuluhan batay sa mga biyayang ibinigay sa kanila. Kung gagamitin lang sa kabutihan ang mga biyayang ito, magkakaroon sana ng tinatawag sa Ingles na “harmony” o samahang matiwasay sa ibabaw ng mundo. Subalit dahil ang bahid ng kasamaan ay naging bahagi na ng tao, hindi maiwasang magkaroon ng mga mapagsamantala. Ang iba naman, dahil sa sobrang pagkakimi o pagkamahiyain ay hindi inilalabas upang maipamahagi ang kanilang biyaya upang kahit papaano sana ay mapakinabangan ng iba…sila ang mga mapag-imbot, subalit hindi nila ito alam.

May isang libro ngayong tanyag na isinulat sa Ingles, mahal ang presyo kaya hindi ko mabili-bili, at ang sinasabi ng titulo na “Purpose in Life”,  ay hindi yata naiiba sa tinatalakay ko. Pero maski wala ang librong yan, common sense ang magdidikta sa atin na lahat tayo ay may kanya-kanyang layunin sa sanlibutan, dahil kung wala….hindi na tayo ipinanganak!

Ang mga imbentor ay matatalinong nilalang na ang layunin ay gumawa ng mga bagay para sa kapakinabangan ng tao. Hindi nga lang inasahan ng ilan sa kanila na ang kanilang inimbento ay gagamitin sa masama, tulad ng bomba, dinamita, baril, bala, at marami pang iba. Pati ang computer at internet na dapat sana’y para sa kabutihan ng mga tao ang gamit, inabuso at ginamit ng mga may mala-demonyong isip para sa sariling kapakanan at pangmulestiya ng kapwa. Ginagamit ang internet upang makapanloko ng kapwa upang magkamal ng pera, at upang harangin sa pamamagitan ng pag-bash ang magandang layunin ng iba na maipamahagi ang mga nasa isip nila. Kung gagamitin lamang ang kaalaman ng mga swindler ang  kanilang talento sa maayos na paraan, marami rin sana ang makikinabang. At, kung ang mga basher ay gumawa lang din ng sarili nilang blogs upang mailahad ang kanilang saloobin, marami sana ang matututunan ng mga mambabasa.


Ano pa nga ba at tila hindi natatakot ang mga taong walang pakundangan sa paggamit ng kanilang mga kaalaman upang makapanloko, sa maaaring mangyari sa kanila ayon sa Gintong Kasabihan (Golden Rule). Dahil diyan, ang pinakamagandang gawin na lang ng iba ay huwag magbigay ng dahilan upang sila ay gawan ng masama, at lalong higit ay mag-ingat sa loob ng 24/7!

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On Acceptance of Fault and Admission of Hurting Truth

Posted on Saturday, 12 November 2016

On Acceptance of Fault and Admission of Hurting Truth
By Apolinario Villalobos

In blogging about attitude, there are instances in which I have to expose the negative aspect of my person that relate to what I am sharing. This is the best way I know to make me credible in what I write. I can’t blog about Duterte being foul-mouthed because he cusses a lot, without mentioning that I do the same, without denying, however, that I am making extra effort to control myself from being provoked. On the other hand, I know that nobody is excused from this fault…not even those who say “Oh, my God” which I find blasphemous. What I find funny is the effort of others to look sanitized, by using “OMG!” which makes them moronic because they pretend that God is not “All Knowing”, as He is Omnipresent.

My need to shout out what are in my mind, are misconstrued by some friends as unbecoming because I am supposed to be “educated”, a reason why I should employ restraint. But I am a blogger and as such, I would be an outright hypocrite if I keep on writing about faults without admitting that I have made similar regrettable acts. In doing so, I become the “mirror” of others as I am letting them know that they may have similar awful attitude. At my expense, I hope to open their eyes to let them know that they need to change. If they find me disgusting and realize at the same time that they are no different from me in some ways, they might change. Their advantage is that, they have no reason and need to open themselves up unlike me who must do such a thing for credibility’s sake due to my blogging. All they need to do are allow themselves to realize and admit their fault. Some may counter by saying that there are many ways to skin a cat, but I do not want to run around the bush. I want to get straight to the point that is why I prefer calling the spade a spade.

My being a “no holds barred” blogger has made many people uneasy…I know, because, while some are bold enough to make open comments about their feelings, others make use of the discreet email and facebook message outlets. I am grateful for their concern, but a sympathizing friend went further by echoing what I have been asking that those who do not want to read my “dreadful” and “unethical” blogs may just skip them as they will know by the title alone. That is the reason why I make the titles of sensitive issues long, as if they are the summary of the whole.

At this point, while I am thankful for many who have come to understand me, some have unfortunately become overly cautious in making comments. In this regard, I have already explained many times that comments about some of my blogs could be necessary for the benefit of viewers as what I share are only my own opinion, hence, presentation of other opinions, as long as they are relevant, could greatly enhance what I have initiated on various issues.


Finally, I find being too honest as some kind of an effort to unburden me of hypocrisy, but I do not want to set a trend, as I must admit that being brutally frank is not good to some extent.

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The Courage of Marcia (Bunny) Gamalinda to Succeed

Posted on Friday, 11 November 2016

THE COURAGE OF MARCIAL (BUNNY) GAMALINDA TO SUCCEED
By Apolinario Villalobos

I remember seeing Bunny whose real name is Marcial T. Gamalinda on the early evening I,  together with new recruits from Mindanao, Abet Yu and Fred Derequito, arrived in Manila Domestic Airport (today, Terminal 4) during the later part of 1975. He was issuing tickets at the Ticket Office. I also saw that evening, David Lim, who I was told by Bunny during our conversation, was their Cashier, but today is among the acknowledged think tanks of Philippine Airlines, holding a position of Senior Vice-President. During the time, the Ticket Office Manager was Teresita Al (Tessie) Luna, who at the time of her retirement was PAL’s AVP-Metro Manila. Bunny also mentioned the supervisors, Mon Lomuntad and Jun Garcia.

Our conversation brought us back to the time when he was interviewed in 1974, as an applicant by Mr. Ricardo G. Paloma, “Mr. Tourism” of the Philippine tourism industry during his time, as Regional Vice-President for Philippines and Guam. His last position was SVP-Finance when he finally retired from PAL at 65.  One question that triggered his outright hiring was the question, “are you willing to be assigned anywhere?”, though such, was introduced with an explanation that the fluidity of the frontline job in PAL is such that, a personnel can be pulled out from his current assignment and transformed to another anytime as necessary. His profound “yes”, impressed Mr. Paloma.

As the Reservations Office in Cebu (RSPC) which was based at the Mactan International Airport was In need of additional staff, Bunny was assigned there after his training, although, his position title was Ticket Freight Clerk (TFC), as the training for which also included basic aspects of Reservations. His supervisors at RSPC were Raffy Gonzales and Loven Fernandez. What touched me was when he told me that he accepted the assignment in Cebu despite his having no relative or acquaintance in Cebu City. To put him at ease, he just considered the assignment as some kind of adventure. In no time, he was made to feel at home by his colleagues at RSPC, some of whom were also from other areas, and most especially, by the congeniality of his Cebuano colleagues, especially, the supervisors.

He did not stay long at RSPC-Mactan/Cebu for he was recalled back to Manila for an assignment at the Domestic Airport Ticket Office as Ticket Clerk. It was during the time that he joined the hectic frontline, and during which he worked with fellow Ticket Clerks, Dennis Balictar and Abel Santos. Not long after, he was taken in by the PAL Development Academy (PDA) as an Instructor. During the time, the training center was under Pinky Cuenca as Director and under her as Division Managers were Mila Abad and the late Cesar Lamberte.

His talent and skill brought him, after a few years at PDA, to Manila Station-International during the time of Jun Martirez who took over the directorship from Dodie Ramirez. He was designated as Staff Assistant of the Director, after which was promoted as Supervisor, a little later as Duty Manager and finally, as Division Manager. His position as Duty Manager opened the vast opportunity to be assigned as Station Manager at various airports abroad which further broadened his knowledge and honed his decision- making as regards airport operation. His unquestionable reliability, finally landed him on the position of Division Manager which he held until his retirement from PAL.

After discussing retirement plans with his wife, Desi (Maria Lourdes), they enrolled in a training center for business entrepreneurship, in which they chose laundry business. But, when they were about to embark on it, he was told by a friend that Tiks Yngente (Francisco Yngente IV), a colleague in PAL and whose last position when he retired was Vice-President of PAL’s Airport Operations Department, based at Termial 2, was with the Sky Logistics-Manila. Instinctively, he called the office and talked to Tiks with an intention to just say “Hi!”. On the spot however, he was asked if could join him (Tiks), to which he outright said yes. Foremost in his mind was their friendship which is founded on the Filipino adage, “may pinagsamahan”, and in English, “what are friends for?”.

Today, he is with the Sky Logistics-Manila, providing support to its President, Tiks Yngente, as the latter’s Executive Assistant. Their tandem provides Sky Logistics in Manila with the ever reliable leadership that steers the company towards indisputable credibility in handling PAL’s airport services needs, thanks also to their well-chosen staff who give them their all-out support.

Bunny and his wife, Desi are blessed with three children – all professionals, Paolo, Katrina, and Denise, as well as, four grandchildren. Paolo had a short stint with Philippine Airlines before joining San Miguel Corporation. Katrina also had served PAL as an Integrated Ticket Representative assigned at Cubao Ticket Office before joining the Dexterton Corp. as Executive Secretary to the President. On the other hand, Denise, who works with SMART as a Computer Business Analyst based in Manila, is now assigned at Auckland, New Zealand.