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The Power of Self-Encouragement
Posted on Tuesday, 30 January 2018
The Power of Self- Encouragement
By Apolinario Villalobos
To be inspired by what we
accomplish through our own effort should not be misconstrued as being
narcissistic. Making us realize that we can do some things without being
dependent on others should give us more impetus to strive mores. However, we
should always remember not to be buoyed
by arrogance. To develop the trait of self-encouragement in us is not easy. If we are used to the
hovering of our parents since childhood, our personality becomes soft, so that
along the way of our life, even a simple impediment makes us falter.
Earning accomplishments in life through self-encouragement is
like saving coins in a piggy bank. The increasing weight of the piggy bank due
to the accumulated coins encourages us to drop more through the slot.
Squandering some saved coins, is like putting to use some of what we have
accomplished into useless endeavor. This can be avoided if we will be always
reminded by an old adage, that we cannot turn back the hands of time, and
as I may add, so do mistakes committed that cannot be undone. Care is then very
necessary to prevent this.
Meanwhile, successful people driven by self-encouragement can
tremendously inspire others, especially, today which is smarting from the frustrating
steady rise of unemployment. A person suffers from disappointment if he
fails to land a job after his first attempt, and in this situation, it is
important that the person should convince himself that he is facing one of the
realities of life – cutthroat competition in applying for a job, for which persistence
can help. He must realize the need to do counter moves or strategies to be
competitive.
To make self-encouragement work, some people switch to other
fields of endeavor, some of which are a far cry from the course that are stated
in their diplomas. There was a time in the past when the most in demand job was
for nurses to fill up vacancies in European hospitals and healthcare
institutions. There was a mass switching of course from medicine to nursing,
and even those with license in medicine, went back to school to desperately
take a course in nursing. This effort somehow helped, even at the expense
of pride – imagine a doctor, willing to work as nurse or a caregiver. As the
ultimate goal is financial gain, those who attained it, thought that they did
just the right thing.
Self-encouragement is a necessary element for survival.
The will to have a useful life after retirement or after having been
partially incapacitated by an accident, needs even a bit of self-encouragement.
In this instance, the government does its part by offering programs for senior
citizens and persons with disability (PWD’s). In this situation,
self-encouragement as a force is more crucial than those coming from other people.
The strength to move on should first come from within a person. External
strength becomes useful to further prop him up steadily.